How To Put Yourself Back In Charge Of Your Life
There was a time in my life when I didn’t take charge of my life. This went on for quite a long time, truth to be told.
For me, it was a habit born out of having lived with a domineering person.
There’s no need to ask yourself what you want when another person apparently knows what’s best for you and when what you think feels like it doesn’t matter.
Being a passive follower on my journey through life was not the dream I had for myself and so, this situation had to change.
Here is a short summary of the most powerful lessons I have learnt and habits I developed that helped me to take charge of my life, feel more empowered and finally have the successful relationships and career I have always dreamt of.
What do you really want?
Ask yourself what you really want. Get crystal-clear about what you desire. Dream big. Don’t let your thoughts limit you. What would you do if you could do anything (and you can!)? Go there.
Be done with going without.
Decide that you’re done with going without it. That’s just not acceptable anymore. Bring your tolerance for deprivation right down. Choose to unwaveringly pursue what you desire until it is done. Going without is no longer an option!
Don’t wait for permission.
Stop looking for permission — you don’t need permission from anyone when you take your power back.
You’re an adult human being and doing what’s good for you isn’t just good for you and everyone else, it’s also kinda your actual adulting responsibility. Zero guilt necessary. And definitely no need to wait for anyone’s permission.
Seek out like-minded people.
Make new connections!
Having others who pursue their dreams around you will help you to stay true to yourself and on track with your journey. Encourage each other and celebrate each other’s wins. Stay away from those who want you to keep playing small.
Do something!
Take consistent action steps towards creating the life of your dreams. It doesn’t matter how small they seem, they will have an impact and amount to something big and meaningful. Trust and keep going.
Clear any success blocks.
It’s time to stop settling, tolerating, playing small, procrasti-planning, hiding your gifts or hesitating. Do the inner healing work so that you can take your success to the next level, wake up excitedly wanting to jump out of bed and feel like a boss.
Embody your next level.
Unlock the parts of you that will make next level success effortless, fun and soul-nourishing.
You’ve got what you need, you just need to step into it and go all in. No more wavering. No more hiding away. No more playing small. You’ve got this and you can have what you want.
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With Love, Marlena
