The Missing Link that Creates Chaos in Your Life

We often complain about other people’s behaviours or the outcomes of situations. They often feel harsh, unnecessary or simply unfair. “You won’t believe what s/he said to me! …”, “You’re just being mean!” or “This is so unfair!!!” are all things we have said or heard during at least one point in our lives (maybe a little over a thousand times, but who’s counting?). What we are faced with is very often confusing and unbelievable to us. We simply cannot understand why what is happening is happening.

This very common problem has one cause. One cause we all miss. One cause we all can’t or won’t see. There is a missing link.

That missing link is us.

We Experience the Consequences of Our Choices

We do not see the undesirable challenges or problems we are facing as natural consequences of our choices. Our choices, which include all of our actions, inactions and reactions. What we do, what we express, what we put out into the world, has an impact. It has a consequence. And what we experience is the consequence.

However, without knowing that it is a consequence, the experiences we are having seem random at best. They don’t make sense.

They do, however, start to make sense when we turn it around. This means that we…